Losing a pet is never easy, and the bond that some of us share with our pets makes the heartbreak of losing them equal to that of losing a family member or close friend. There may be an expectation that we simply say goody bye and get on with our life as if nothing has happened. For some there can even be a sense of embarrassment at feeling so sad. It does not really matter what others think, what is important is what your pet meant to you. The grief is very real and we need to allow ourselves the time to go through the normal grieving process.
Pets mean different things to each of us, and for some that special pet may come into our lives when they were needed, almost as if they had a reason or a purpose. They may have been our first pet during our schooling years, that constant presence during a time of change as we navigated the pressures of growing up. They may have been our fur-kid when our fledgling family was getting off the ground, there to celebrate so many milestone firsts in our children’s, and families life. They may have been the child we always wanted or never had, providing us with unconditional love. Sometimes they may have been that special companion when our children left home or the loss of friends or family left us feeling more alone. They may have been a connection to a lost loved one, helping their memory linger that much longer.
Pets also enrich our lives in so many ways. For many of us pets can be healing or comforting, especially when we have a lot going on, and the stress of everyday life can start to wear us down. They may be a play mate, a walking motivator, a snuggle buddy, a lap warmer, a home office supervisor, and a security blanket. From pats to cuddles to treats, they often find a way to remind us of the simple pleasures in life. They can be gentle, yet demanding, playful and active but intuitive to know when a cuddle on the couch, or a chin rub is order.
For so for many of us who have had to experience the heartbreaking loss of a much loved family pet, some more recently than others, we can always hold some comfort in knowing that our lives will always be for the better.
For anyone who has been through a loss, or who dreads the thought of losing a special pet, please always remember how good it can be to talk to like minded friends or family. There are also many avenues to share your stories and receive grief support.
Furthermore when the time comes to say good bye, please remember we are here to help support you through that tough decision, we genuinely understand what you may be going through and are always willing to answer any questions you may have.
